Tips to be married

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Tips to be married

It is shared by an inspired ukhti, who already being a wife and a mother

As u step up to enter the marriage life

1. Emptying ur vessel.

Means, dont expect anything, do expect a NIL, not even one. Women tend to imagine all the sweet thing, all the fairy tales, all the korean drama, all the novels and drama.

*to have her husband- tajweed together, pray together, the one who wakes us up for qiam
*to have husband whom will praise our cook,look, help us with housework, to have someone to pamper us, to make us laugh.

NO, dont expect.

reasons. U will be very happy if they did so. Yes, you will absolutely happy, because it beyond ur expectation. Means, every single (small) things that ur spouse do, u will be suprised and overwhelmed. Even, when they help u wash the dishes.even, they help u with preparing the meal. help u with his smile.

and, u wont be frustrated if they arent up to ur expectation. as the expectation lead u to feel frustrated, stress. u will be stress hoping for the expected husband.

2. Understanding

U need to understand one another. Marrigae isnt like daughter and their parents. They have to nod. marriage is like, u could discuss together, have the agreement between one another.

3. Allah

everything is reflected in ur connection with Allah, if ur marriage life is shaken, back to ur connection with Allah

Have Allah as the first place for u to share the happiest news and the sadden news. Allah is the first that u will share with, then come ur husband

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