UNfollow : take a good care of your heart

By ninadiana -
I have to

i have to unfollow
UNFOLLOW
because i need to take care of my heart

i need to make sure i have to stay in track
i need to avoid anything that will affect my
concentration and the way i present my thought

yes, i just realize

i have numbers on  theoretical and some idea of marriage life
(however, it is really small compared to one whom already marriage)
how the struggling u will face in ur mariage, its not only the lovey dupey
somehow, its could things could lead to thunderstorm,
but how u prepare and dealt with it are the most important
to ensure Ur ship travel far happily and blissfully to a lovely land.

thanks to my readings and maybe, some of the things on munakahat that lead me from one to another

motivation, suggestion on how u should deal with marriage life
how u should be a good wife, how u should handle things and conflict

i am not married yet, i dont have a big picture on it
but somehows i believe that each of my small puzzle ~ will help me
understand on how i should harmonize my marriage life-
(well i dont know yet when that shall be) ngee

so, for a moment, i have to let go the thought on how marriage life should be

alhamdulillah, my friend borrowed my books on

keys to a succesful marriage life
a gift to muslim bride

a very good book, that i think everyone should have, especially women
its not the typical marriage book.
SERIOUSLY,
we did buy for our friend, and those whom read it finds it very beneficial

it tells u how u deal with ur husband, what do and donts
how u should act and speak with ur husband, present urself in a good way
i love the wisdom in the books
(of course from the author of the books and Allah that give them the abilities to write the book)

so, alhamdulillah, the books now in a good hand

i have to unfollow FB from pure matrimony, half of our deen

i know, the naseehat and wisdom of every post is very superb
even for single peeps like me.
but, i need to take care of my heart

i even unfollow some of the photographer,
coz they always update the marriage album
that makes me feel
i want to have that kind of photoshoot
muahahaha

so, thats the way,
how i try myself to take care of heart. biiznillah.

*maybe u can also unfollow anyone that  make ur heart tremble. ahha, did that, and it helps. alhamdulillah



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