The Shyness ~Sheikh Abdul Bary yahya

(SHY) 15 The Shyness
Sheikh Abdul Bary yahya



The society  without
The people without shyness is the worst of people

If you are not shy, u do wheat ever u please

Shyness, of u don't have it , we become animal

Describe.
People sleep with each other, in the road,

We forget that the most shy of this ummah was not a women
It was prophet saw
And uthman ra

And shyness is very beautiful
Islam respect women shyness also

When women is also asked for a hand in marriage
Her approval is her silence

It goes across his nature.if u say yeaaaah... She will sure silence, naturally  shyness.

Be quiet,
Islam respect women shyness, in the part of women

Women is respected
That's is why she is protected

We raise the status of women
When was the last time we leave queen travel alone, wows
We protect her chasity' in the time of travel

Iman faith is
And shyness is kne of the branches of eeman
Defining attribute and characteristic of this ummah

Defining traits
Defining characteristic of Islam is hayaa.
Is part of eeman
Not stop u,..
speaking you
from ordering, seek knowledge , tell the truth, forbidding evil,

Shyness is not bring forth except goods
Rasulullah saw is the most shy of all the people,
Isra mikraj
50 prayer .. Prophet saw accepted, out of shyness, he return back until he met prophet musa, order him to go back to his lord to decrease the prayer obligatory,
Back and forth,
Musa was given two prayer for his ummah, but he knows that difficult

Was only five prayer left... Musa told to go back..
But prophet saw say he shy already
Equivalent of 50 prayer ...perfecto

Said al khudri,
Shyness than a women, Virgin,

What shyness really is,
Abu bakr umar, in some occasion , in comfortable position
Part of his tight showing, and saidina uthman came in, and he enter the room,
And the messenger saw sat up and make his cloth

O messenger of Allah , u r reclining with Abu bakr and uthman, but when uthman came in,should I not be shy when the angel shy with uthman
Shyness in piety
The angel respect uthman
as in our time, we respect the scholars

How we can apply that in our daily life
What is hayaa,
If u have shyness, whenever he advice people he never want to harm anybody feelings

If someone did something wrong, she said whenever rasulullah saw want to advice people something that they did.

He never make them feel uncomfortable,

In hudaibiyyah, rasulullah saw sent uthman,
He will always choose his words carefully,
So that

Wa kalimatu taiyyiba, is sadaqah,

The messenger saw always cleans himself behind something, nobody see his aurah. Except his wife

He is generous, but still very shyness

If he couldn't provided, he just be silence,
He will give, if anybody ask something
Shy to say no, if anyone ask her for money,

It's hard to say no,
For Malaysian, society

If u don't like, say no, in western ,

Yes ok inshaAllah

It takes time sometime to learn , learn that,

Never forbid seeking truth,
Shyness not prevent u from from learning the truth
The companions, will sometimes comes to meet propeht saw,  ummu salamah
Allah is not shy from the truth,

If a women have a wet dream, does she need to make ghusul, said correct

Don't be with so,some who beat around the bush

Look for someone who shy,
Part of shyness is being thankful

No equality in Islam., but equity, fairness, justice
Hadeeth
Your mother your mother, your mother then your father,

He is being thankful with a mother
Alhayaa minal iman

Choose your word carefully without being harsh
Prophet saw ask us to have manner in seeing knowledge. Interact with people
Perfect our manners and akhlaq

Look at yourself, shyness between u and Allah swt
If u think that u are alone and thinking of doing someone haraam
Think of the blessing of Allah, thinking that how can u be so bad, disobey Allah and has blessed u so much so
How could u want to disobey him

He was even better when he was alone, uthman, that's why his shyness been seen. All over till the angel feels so.

Choose the best word when u speaks to people
Ihsan between u and Allah
While shyness encompass both, with Allah and people.



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