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It's amazing how hateful people can be, especially when they are hiding behind a screen name. Don't let these "people" allow you to react. Your righteousness harms them far more than your foul language. Remember, the clouds move, even when the dogs bark.
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Is it possible to obtain the quality of patience?

"If a person does not naturally possess the characteristic of patience, he can attain this characteristic by acting as if he does possess it, until it eventually becomes second nature. This is what the Prophet (saAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) has told us in the hadith: “Whoever tries to be patient, then Allâh will help him to be patient.” For e.g. A person can strive to control sexual desire and lower his gaze until these become second nature. The same applies to all other desirable characteristics such as steadiness, generosity and courage."

- Ibn al-Qayyim in 'Patience and Gratitude'
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Bila kita bagi nasihat, orang tak nak dengar, bahkan marah-marah, sindir-sindir kita balik, kita sepatutnya berpuas hati.

1- Tandanya teguran kita sampai.

2- Kita sudah jalankan tanggungjawab menegur.

3- Bila dikritik semula, kita dapat pula dengar/baca 'semburan' mereka pula kepada kita, lantas membuatkan kita berpeluang belajar perspektif baru, juga dapat menilai apakah teguran kita benar atau jawapan mereka terhadap teguran kitalah yang benar.

Yang penting, beranikan diri bersuara.

Amatlah berbeza orang yang duduk diam dengan orang keluar berjuang.
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We are amazed at being tested in that which we love the most. I say, it is most natural that He tests us in that which is dearest to us. That is because He is eager to be the Closest to you & me; without partnership of people, things, feelings, or even our own selves!
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Antara fenomena popular di dunia ini adalah:

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Bila kau kritik aku, kau bukan dari kalangan aku. Bila kau kritik aku, kau automatik masuk dalam kategori lawan dan musuh aku.
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Orang yang amal perangai macam ini, walau dia perjuangkan kebenaran sekalipun, kebenaran akan nampak hodoh di tangannya.

Pengkritik kepada tindakan kita bukanlah semestinya musuh. Lihatlah dahulu kritikannya.

Menjatuhkan atau membina? Kurang ajar atau bahasanya bersih tanpa carutan?
Kita nilai dengan bijak.

Jangan terburu-buru cop pengkritik sebagai musuh. Takut yang asalnya kawan, jadi lawan.

Dan itu merugikan.
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It is reported that Imâm Al-Awzâ’î – Allâh have mercy on him – said:

At the time of Fajr, or a while before it, the Salaf would be as if birds were sitting on their heads: (still ) concentrating on themselves [and their worship], so much so that even if one of their closest friends came to them after having been parted from them, they would not notice him. They would remain in this state until just before sunrise. Then, they would meet each other and sit in the circles. The first thing they would discuss is the matter of their afterlife and what would become of them in the hereafter. Then they would begin the circles of Quran and Fiqh study.

Ibn ‘Asâkir, Târîkh Dimishq 35:184, 185.
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Kadangkala Allah lambatkan kemenangan di pihak kita kerana masalah sikap kita sendiri.

Islam sudah Islam. Perjuangan pun Islam. Tetapi mungkin kita ada riya', takabbur, ego, atau tidak bersedia, tidak ambil langkah produktif, kemas, efisyen dan sebagainya. Mungkin ada dosa yang tidak kita tinggalkan, ada maksiat yang masih kita cinta, ada keingkaran yang masih kita suka buat.

Kita patut melihat semula diri dan berubah.

Bukan apabila tewas, kalah, kita hanya tahu berkata:
"Dah Allah takdirkan begini."

Mari muhasabah diri.
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