Marriage: My Maratib Amal

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Marriage corner for Twins of Faith

Peluh besar sebab kene tules 
ABOUT ME dan I AM LOOKING FOR

to write about such
i need to avoid the misjudging,
trying my best to think, what the type of husband i am looking for
(apart from hoping my husband could handle 
buah kelapa-potong ruput-do the mens-house work-mentol-btulkan barang rumah rosak)-
ok. sila jangan berangan banyak!, put the priorities first!



never.never in my mind
i think carefully, and focally 
about my future husband.
and
what i want from him.
(generally, logically especially in Islamic perspectives)
lebih lebih lagi bila taw. we are the one yang kene lahirkan ummah!,ummah yang terbina dari maratib amal.
 erk. sesak nafas-kalah naik gunung.

and still figuring, myself, whom am I
trying to put into words
Clumsy!
yeah that the first things-crossed my mind,

So, in the journey of
trying my best- looking for the best
someone whom
could bring me into Jannah to Firdaus,
not only me, but in package
my mother, father, sisters, and future children
adakah saya bermimmpi??? inshaAllah, may Allah give Jannah for us all.

to looks for such husband.
yet, i am looking upon myself- surely, 
Am I such?
so, i do think, what we want for the husband.?
this and that kind of characteristic of the husband

so as the brothers.
They also want the same.
They did want the best.

so, basically, what we hope?
we need to be what we want them to be
 and  try complete one another

if we are hoping our brother- is good
verily, u need to be good 

if we are hoping our brother is a leader
verily, u need to be a good follower.

so, jom cermin diri


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I want to share, as i thought, everyone have to know about this, is really important. really is. The way they asked us. verily, This is the things we need to be ready with. SERIOUSLY.
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Assalamualaikum Sisters,

 I hope you are in the best on health and imaan, ameen.

 I am honored you have decided to sign up for the upcoming "Marriage Facilitation Ceremony" in Twins of Faith 2012. Congratulations for taking ownership of your own success in the dunia and the akhirah. Marriage is an act of ibadah, so it should be taken seriously. As a Muslimah who loves Allah and the Prophet (PBUH) you should always strive to find ways to fulfill her Deen in a halal and blessed manner.

 Before coming to the event, I would like all of us to prepare ourselves mentally and spiritually from today onwards.

  1) Make the intention to get married sincerely for the sake of Allah, and to fulfill the Prophet (PBUH)' sunnah.

 2) Seek sincere repentance to Allah for your past, present and future mistakes.

 3) Ponder on the blessings that Allah have sent down to us, i.e. for being a Muslimah, for our family, education, experience, etc. all that makes the person you are today.

 4) Seek more knowledge in Allah's Deen, so you will be able to increase the quality of your worship hence your relationship with Allah ta'ala.

 5) Increase your du'a to Allah in the sujud of your solah, and make an effort to increase your tahajjud and make du'a in the last 1/3 of the night which is from around 3 a.m up to the time for subuh.

 6) Focus to become the best Muslimah; be careful of your speech, your aurah, your relationships, etc.
Last but not least, here is an inspiring note especially for all of us who are finding love.

 https://www.facebook.com/notes/zarina-zul-mukhshar/a-note-of-love-to-all-my-single-girlfriends/10150905386239008

 May Allah bless you :)
Your Sister in Islam,

 Dahlia
Marriage Corner Project Manager

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